Do we really like being Happy?

luvhari — Sat, 17 Apr 2010 20:41:32 +0000

Many people forget the things that matter in life and constantly wonder why they feel like shit most of the time. Although most people say they want to be happy, almost none of them can tell you how specifically they will know when they are happy.
It looks like our brain is not tuned into feel happy. Don’t believe me?

Ok answer this question
Where in you body do you feel the most pleasure right now?

Found an answer yet?

If you are like most people you say there wondering where you feel the most pleasure in your body.
Now try answering another question

Where in your body do you feel the most pain right now?

At one workshop I had a near 100% response to this question. Almost everyone could point out at least one place where they felt some kind of pain.

What does this exercise prove?

We are more tuned into detect pain than pleasure. Any wonder why we always seem to end up in bad spots, less than desirable situations.
The things we like don’t seem to want to come to us. That is because although consciously we say we like pleasure, unconsciously we are comfortable with pain.
Until you realize this fact and consciously start to identify the pleasure spots in your body and in your life, you will stay wound in the same rat race.

So everytime you make a decision ask your self are making it because every one else is making or, because you believe you will get closer to being happier this way?

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How to be happy?

luvhari — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 16:53:14 +0000

Where in your body do you feel the greatest pleasure right now?

Is it your feet? or your stomach?

Can you locate at least one part of your body where you feel the greatest pleasure…right now….

No answer?

I do not blame you.

Now think of at least one part of your body that hurts….

How may can you name?

If you are like any other person, you can name at least 2 or 3 parts.

How the Hell is this related to being happy?

All our life, we have been trained to focus on the mistakes, pains errors and unpleasantness in general.

When we focus so much on unpleasant painful things, how can you be happy rich or successful?

What is the first step in being happy?

Focus more on finding the pleasant thought feelings and expressions.

Dr. Kilstein, a leading NLP Specialist has created a DVD program that helps people recognize their most powerful states and then use it to make themselves happier and successful.

If you want to give yourself a wonderful Christmas present, this is it.

This is the perfect way to start your New Year.

http://www.communication-skills-4confidence.com/happy

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